Average Cost of a Wedding (2018)

With more than 2 million people getting married in the United States each year alone, ValuePenguin wanted to do a bit of research on how much the average wedding cost in the United States. Are you currently planning a wedding and interested in what your budget should be? Below you'll see how much brides and grooms are spending on a state-by-state basis so you can see how you stack up.

The Average Cost of a Wedding (by State)

Depending on where you get married the cost of your wedding can vary significantly from the national average of $29,858. Our table below shows the states (and areas of the state where applicable) in alphabetical order. To arrive at the "Average Wedding Cost" figure, we took our cost per guest and multiplied it times the average wedding guests nationwide (140).

State

Cost per GuestAverage Wedding Cost

Alabama

$137$19,203

Alaska

$193$26,962

Arizona

$217$30,359

Arkansas

$133$18,596

California (Central)

$178$24,960

California (LA)

$264$36,890

California (Orange County)

$262$36,745

California (Sacramento)

$264$36,990

California (San Diego)

$269$37,599

California (Santa Barbara)

$338$47,252

California (SF/Bay Area)

$282$39,475

Colorado

$225$31,435

Connecticut

$314$43,942

Florida (Central)

$271$37,898

Florida (Northern)

$255$35,638

Florida (Southern)

$365$51,073

Florida (West Coast)

$300$42,038

Georgia (Atlanta)

$205$28,659

Georgia (Savannah)

$253$35,480

Hawaii

$312$43,739

Idaho

$109$15,286

Illinois (Central)

$138$19,251

Illinois (Chicago Suburbs)

$199$27,902

Illinois (Chicago)

$351$49,151

Indiana

$137$19,129

Iowa

$97$13,637

Kentucky

$124$17,357

Louisiana

$206$28,830

Maine

$262$36,663

Maryland (Baltimore)

$252$35,236

Massachusetts (Boston)

$280$39,147

Michigan (Detroit)

$185$25,870

Michigan (Lansing/Grand Rapids)

$145$20,290

Minnesota

$136$19,084

Mississippi

$91$12,769

Missouri (Kansas City)

$142$19,829

Missouri (St. Louis)

$136$19,082

Nebraska

$103$14,388

Nevada

$296$41,502

New Hampshire

$241$33,780

New Jersey (North and Central)

$342$47,868

New Jersey (South)

$295$41,273

New Mexico

$132$18,479

New York (Long Island)

$354$49,556

New York (Manhattan)

$630$88,176

New York (Outer Boroughs)

$349$48,866

New York (Westchester)

$326$45,709

New York (Western/Central)

$195$27,302

North Carolina

$199$27,808

North Dakota

$103$14,437

Ohio (Cincinnati)

$145$20,311

Ohio (Cleveland)

$156$21,782

Ohio (Columbus)

$153$21,466

Ohio (Toledo)

$112$15,734

Oklahoma

$118$16,497

Oregon

$185$25,956

Pennsylvania (Central)

$178$24,966

Pennsylvania (Lehigh Valley/Poconos)

$267$37,429

Pennsylvania (Philly)

$288$40,350

Pennsylvania (Pittsburgh)

$200$27,975

Rhode Island

$327$45,736

South Carolina

$219$30,611

South Dakota

$103$14,437

Tennessee

$159$22,274

Texas (Austin/San Antonio)

$198$27,743

Texas (Dallas)

$206$28,810

Texas (Houston)

$223$31,236

Texas (West Texas)

$99$13,904

Utah

$95$13,301

Vermont

$254$35,493

Virginia

$204$28,542

Washington

$195$27,293

Washington DC

$320$44,856

West Virginia

$140$19,554

Wisconsin

$139$19,483

Wyoming

$142$19,813

Most and Least Expensive States

The most expensive states to host a wedding are all in 5 of the states with the largest populations. Conversely, the more affordable states are all in the bottom half of the US in terms of population with the exception of Texas.

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Most Expensive

The five most expensive components of your wedding, on average, tend to make up almost 90% of your total costs.

top five most expensive parts of wedding cost

1. Reception Venue

the reception venue isn't typically one giant cost but a series of above average expenses that add up quickly. Below I'll list the main costs and what you can expect for each. They include:

  • Bar Service - If you're opting for open bar service at your reception the average couple pays somewhere between $1,834 and $3,056 to quench their guests thirst. Having a cash bar is one option of alleviating that expense, although we recommend you just opt for cheaper booze than making your guests pay for all of their drinks!
  • Catered Food - Making sure your guests are well fed is one of the most expensive parts of any wedding. Expect to spend an average of $4,200 for a wedding of 140 ($30 per plate). Of course, if you're having a fancier wedding be prepared to spend much more than that...anywhere up to $100 per plate depending on how decadent your reception is.
  • Venue Rental - With $3,100 spent on average to rent a wedding venue, it's the 2nd priciest component of your reception.
  • Equipment Rentals - On top of renting out the venue, many couples end up needing additional equipment (chairs, tables, etc) brough it it accommodate the large number of people in attendance. While cheaper than the venue and food costs, equipment still isnt' cheap: $1,700 on average.

2. Engagement Ring

There may be more variability in price with engagement rings that almost anything else. From $100 to $1 million, you can find them in all shapes, sizes and costs. In 2013, nearly 81% of all men that were married opted to purchase an engagement ring for their wife to-be. So how can you make sure you're getting plenty of bang for your buck, the nearly of the four C's () don't compromse on cut.

3. Reception Band

Since musical entertainment is usually a big part of a wedding reception, the question is whether you'll shell out for a band or decide to save extra cash by going with a DJ. The average cost of having a band at your reception was $3,469 in 2013 with about 25% of couples going that route. The average price to have a DJ spin your night away was about 70% cheaper, or $1,000 for the night.

4. Photographer

Having photos taken is expensive as our $2,440 average per wedding indicates (and that's not even including the cost of a videographer if you want that, too). If you're looking to save money, most photographers will give you significant discounts if you refer your other friends who have weddings in the pipeline.

5. Ceremony Site

while a more traditional wedding ceremony (like a church) isn't terribly expensive, more and more people these days are opting to go the less traditional route and find a scenic location for their ceremony. Getting married on the beach for example. Couples in 2013 spent an average of $1,793 on their ceremony sites.

Least Expensive

While much cheaper than the more expensive wedding must-haves, these five expenses can still be had for a cheaper price if you're willing to get creative!

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1. Favors

wedding favors can cost you in the high $200s. This is generally an expense that can be cut altogether or at least minimized. Instead of giving something that is going to collect dust or end up in the trash bin by the end of the night you can save money by doing something a bit more thoughtful. For example, a CD with 15 of your favorite songs that guests can take home as a reminder of the night that's both low-cost and memorable.

2. Invitations

Cost $6.32 per invite on average (assuming most people come as couples) with much fancier invitations can command $15 or more per invite. You can always opt to save by making DIY cards, using "print your own" invitations, or even going with 100% electronic invitations that are sent out as emails.

3. Wedding Cake

Average expenditure is $3.90 per piece of wedding cake. There are multiple ways to save money on this expense. You could order a half slice for each guest instead of a full slice (since most people only eat half anyways) to cut your cost. Another option is to order a smaller version of the beautiful cake for presentation and then have a few sheet cakes in the kitchen to feed the mass of people!

4. Ceremony Musician

Once you decide what kind of instruments and arrangements you want to be played during your ceremony you'll need to hire a musician(s). Surprisingly, this can cost as much as $588 for the ceremony. Of course if you have a musically talented friends you can also save if they're willing to "donate" their time for the ceremony.

5. Transportation

Most weddings that I've been in have had a limo (or bus) whose express purpose is to shuttle the wedding party around before and after the ceremony in style. For their typical 3 hours of service it will set you back in the ballpark of $700 once you include the drivers tip.

How Have Wedding Costs Changed Over Time

Looking at our chart below you'll see that wedding prices have increased from $15,200 to $29,650 on average since 1990...a sizable 100% increase!

But are we being unfair and coming down too strongly on what we see as a ridiculous increase in wedding costs over the years? Possibly. Using inflation data from the BLS we found that prices have risen 82% over the past 25 years. That means a $15,000 wedding in 1990 would cost $27,300 in 2014 dollars. So using this metric, wedding prices have only increased 9% in the last two and a half decades. Not bad!

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Methodology

The data used in this analysis is from a variety of sources and websites including: CostofWedding.com, WeddingStats.com, and TheKnot.

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